Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Include patience in everday life.


I have been working at Gamestop for 2 years, off and on. For those that are not familiar with the company, Gamestop is a gaming based retail business. We sell new and used video games, video game systems, books, and accessories. Out of all retail jobs, I believe that it is the easiest retail job anyone could ever have. Although, it is still RETAIL.

Working in retail can be mundane, annoying, and difficult. Gamestop says “customers always comes first,” but really, what retail company TRULY pushes this phrase into action? Corporate tells us that our number one priority right now is to push, sell, and emphasize reserving upcoming titles. Our district managers even send us emails all the time about what percentage we should have at the end of the day in reserves and magazine subscriptions. In my store, as well as other stores, everyone is scared to lose their jobs because of their lack of numbers. You can imagine that if we need numbers, we obviously will do just about anything to get them. I have been starting to see a trend where employees are more concerned about pushing reserves and subscriptions rather than actually talking with customers and getting to know their needs. I do not do as well as others in my store, but I try my hardest to push numbers as well as please the customers.

The hardest time to be truly involved and associating with customers is around the holidays. People, especially parents, either have a wish list already set and ready or have no clue what to get their family members and children. It can be a trying time for parents, but also for us employees. For some reason, EVERYONE seems more grumpy than usual.

Around Christmastime of last year, there were a large amount of people shopping in the store. A woman had come up to me and flat out said, “My son wants one of those gaming things and I don’t have any idea what he’s talking about. I need help!” (These customers are my favorite!) She seemed a little stressed out, looking around at all the different looking systems and vast amount of video games for each. Instead of just being a retail zombie and showing her the various expensive product, I tried to relate to her by saying that when I first started, I had no clue about the gaming world. I was just like her, clueless as to what these boxes and cords all did. I asked her about her son and her concerns: he was only ten years old and she didn’t want her son getting into violent video games, she wanted to be able to have a system where the rest of her family could play, etc. I listened to her intently and didn’t say a word of suggestion until she was finished. After, I walked around the store with her and pointed out the various systems we had. In doing so, I also described, to the best of my knowledge, the qualities and benefits of each system, and the types of games that usually came out for each. I answered all of her questions and took the time to ask other employees about things I didn’t know about. This took about 10-15 minutes, during which a line had formed behind the counter. I told her to take her time in deciding, and whenever she was ready, I would be at the counter. This woman ended up buying a new Wii system, extra controllers, several video games, as well as a magazine subscription. When I was done ringing her up, she shook my hand and expressed great gratitude. She told me she came in there feeling like a lost puppy and came out with something she was satisfied with. She also said I was the best employee she has ever talked to in a retail environment and that no one has ever took as much time with her as I did.

I still smile thinking about the experience because her compliments were so sweet and genuine and I truly felt like I helped her in her situation. I did my best to relate to her and thought back to when I knew nothing about video games. In retail, we forget that in order to please customers, we have to relate to them. We can’t always think about numbers or pushing product. It is more important to look outside of the “job” and see what the customer truly needs and wants. By getting to know someone, one is able to step into their shoes and see what they truly want, and in the end, both can be satisfied and happy. I see now that when I differ in opinions with certain friends, I have to take the time to get to know their side of the story. I can’t just jump to conclusions or block out what they feel, even if it is the opposite of mine. The principle of love that I’ve learned from this experience is in order to have a true idea of love, one must have the ability to be patient with not only our family and friends, but to strangers, co-workers, and other people we encounter on a daily basis.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

This is a cold war..



Music is a constant lover, teacher, and friend in my life. It has not left my side since the very first day my aunt put on a Madonna album and I listened to “Like a Prayer.” Music has been there for me when I was going through various problems and issues in my life, like a family death, recent break-up, or even just a lonely night. It was also there to motivate me to grasp life by the hands and just let loose. It taught me to not take life so seriously. Music has taught me to dance, shake my hips, twirl, and toss my hair to the beat of the song. It showed me life should always have a soundtrack. I have to admit: I am in love with Music.

The song that I have chosen that is significant in my life today would be “Cold War” by Janelle Monae. The opening of the song starts off with slow, melodic keys, making me think the song would continue as a ballad. Then she starts to sing along with a fast drum beat. Towards the end, a crazy electric guitar solo is done by “Kelindoooo.” I love the way Janelle’s voice sounds in the song. She sings with real heart and soul. She carries on this feeling of soulfulness throughout the whole song, never faltering.

The lyrics of the song relate to every note that is being played. To me, the song is about trying to find peace within one’s self so that we could all live day by day. The chorus, “This is a cold war/Do you know what you’re fighting for?” is the perfect choice of words. Life is a bitch, so why are we putting up with her? I question myself all the time, what am I doing here on this planet? What’s the point of dealing with all the drama and bull shit? I have been trying to find in me an answer as to why I get up in the morning. It might sound like a depressing thought, but it is a difficult question to answer: WHY? The lyric “I'm trying to find my peace/I was made to believe there's something wrong with me” is exactly, word for word, how I feel at this point in my life. I have constant depressive thoughts that there is something mentally wrong with me. Sometimes I look in the mirror and feel an extreme sense of self-loathing. I do not truly love my whole self, and realizing that is the first step to trying to find my own peace. It is as if one must break down in order to formally build a stable sense of self.

I love how the tone of the song seems so full of optimism. The song itself makes me want to get up and dance. It seems to give me courage to continue on my journey to find myself. The guitar solo really hits me. It correlates to the opening lyric, “But being alone is the only way to be.” It starts off slow, just like how it takes a while to find happiness within myself. The guitarist then gradually leads to a fast riff and by the end of the song, the guitar is the last instrument being heard. After finally finding love and truth within my own mind, I know from then on that I can carry on by myself. I can live life knowing it is okay to be alone. My favorite lyric to the song is “We must brave this night and have faith in love.” The lyric itself holds a lot of value to me. There will always be hard times ahead, but I must believe that in the end, everything happens for a reason. I see that I must ignore all the bad I see in myself and the world, and look towards the beauty in life and love for myself.


“Cold War” by Janelle Monae

So you think I'm alone?
But being alone's the only way to be
When you step outside
You spend life fighting for your sanity

This is a cold war
You better know what you're fighting for
This is a cold war
Do you know what you're fighting for?

If you wanna be free?
Below the ground's the only place to be
Cause in this life
You spend time running from depravity

This is a cold war
Do you know what you're fighting for?
This is a cold war
You better know what you're fighting for
This is a cold war
You better know what you're fighting for
This is a cold war
Do you know what you're fighting for?

Bring wings to the weak and bring grace to the strong
May all evil stumble as it flies in the world
All the tribes comes and the mighty will crumble
We must brave this night and have faith in love

I'm trying to find my peace
I was made to believe there's something wrong with me
And it hurts my heart
Lord have mercy, ain't it plain to see?

This is a cold war
You better know what you're fighting for
This is a cold war
Do you know what you're fighting for?

KELLINDOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Do you know it's a cold, cold war?
Do you, do you do you?

Bye, bye, bye, bye
Don't you cry when I say goodbye